Chapter 299 Assumption
Fang Piaolan sighed softly and said, "I understand. It's just... how great it would be if I were stronger... I don't have the ability, so I drag people down and hurt people... I remember you once said that you would like to see me become stronger and stronger... But not only did I not do it, but I also hurt you because of my incompetence... My incompetence is my own sorrow, and it has become your sorrow. An incompetent person is the sorrow of herself and everyone who has a good relationship with her. Even if she doesn't drag others down, but she lacks the ability, how many people will she help less and how many things will she do? But I didn't have the opportunity to learn anything since I was a child. Grandpa gave me the best food and clothes he could give, and he cared about me and took good care of me. He would try his best to meet my other wishes, and I have always been grateful to him, but he didn't want me to learn skills. Grandpa said, 'Skills can kill people!' His only younger brother and his beloved wife both died because of their skills. He has been hurt in this regard. It was a very serious stimulation, so I can understand why he didn't let me learn any skills. Although I have always wanted to learn, my grandfather bought me, raised me, and has given me too many favors. I can't ask for more from him, let alone touch his bottom line and do what he is most reluctant to let me do. I didn't learn any skills since I was a child, so when I went to Tiecangting to work, I didn't do it well at first, but I was very attentive, and later I made some progress, but I learned many things too late. A person with great skills is not necessarily prone to killing himself because of the tree attracting wind. It also depends on other aspects. But if a person has no skills, not only will his own survival be affected, but he will also bring trouble to others, which is harmful to himself and others. If life can start over again, if I have the opportunity to learn skills in the new life, I will definitely make myself as strong as possible, not only will I not harm myself and others, but I will also protect others and protect you, but... but there is no if in this world..."
Seeing that she was still blaming herself, Fei Cunyi said, "Indeed, I have said before that I would like to see you become stronger and stronger, because I love you sincerely. If a person's feelings for another person are true love from the heart rather than selfish possession, then he will definitely hope that person becomes stronger and stronger. If you love her, you will hope that her ability to survive and develop will become stronger. If you not only do not want the other person to become stronger, but also try to reduce the other person's ability to survive and develop independently, then the idea is tantamount to cruel murder. Most of the two people who come together in this world will not die at the same time, and most of them will not be together all the time, so when both parties are together, they should consider the other party and try to ensure that even if you are not with the other party, the other party has the ability to continue to live well on their own. Two people in love are together. , we should grow together. Love is not a bondage that restricts the development of either party, but a force that makes both parties stronger. Even if they have to face life and death in the future, it is easier for either party to continue to live well because they have grown stronger in love than before. Of course, this strength not only includes the ability to survive, but also includes the spirit. I hope you are strong, just because I love you. On the other hand, if a person truly loves the other person, he will never judge and measure the other person by how much ability that person already has, and will not get close to or dislike the other person because of the other person's big or small ability, because he only loves the other person. Hoping that the other person becomes stronger and stronger is just to wish that the person you love will be easier to survive and develop, and it is never to covet the other person's strength to bring convenience to yourself. "
(End of this chapter)
