Chapter 295 Mother in a patriarchal family (33)
Obviously Bingyan doesn't understand her grandmother's painstaking efforts.
"If a joke makes me feel uncomfortable, it's not a joke. Grandma, don't speak for them. I'm not stupid. The teacher said that I have wisdom. I know they dislike me for being a girl.
When I was at home, someone told me that because I am a girl, everything belonging to my grandmother and my mother will belong to others. I think what they said is bullshit. Of course, what belongs to me is mine, and what belongs to my grandmother is still mine. Grandma's, my mother's are my mother's, how could they be someone else's. "
Bingyan didn't understand the complex emotions of adults. She hugged her grandmother's neck and continued: "I know they only like boys, but that's because they don't understand girls. Grandma, you must like me, right? "
Zhao Li now realizes that there is a difference between her granddaughter and her daughter. No matter what she hears or what she sees, she will feel that the people around her like her. If they don't like her, it's because they haven't seen the good in her yet. .
Her daughters are very awkward, and their relationships are not going well. The eldest daughter was let down by a man like Chen Shimei first, and then she met Bingyan's father.
The second daughter is divorced and now has no intention of remarrying. She used to say that she would like to adopt children when she gets older, but later she said that she would no longer rely on children to support her in old age.
The third daughter has rarely been seen since she entered college. The last time we met was on National Day last year. The eldest daughter took them and her in-laws to Beijing to watch the flag-raising ceremony, so she didn’t know the relationship status of the third daughter.
But Zhao Li always remembered the words of her third daughter. At that time, her third daughter was still studying here. Her husband mentioned that as long as she was admitted to university, even a junior college, she would definitely marry into a good family like her second sister.
But the third daughter said, can a family like theirs find any good people?
She said that her father was a good man, but he had also made her mother and sisters suffer for so many years. Since she had to be wronged whether she married or not, it was better to just wrong one person.
Therefore, Zhao Li always felt that the third daughter, like the second daughter, had no intention of getting married.
The fourth daughter had a bumpy relationship. By the time she found out that the fourth daughter had a boyfriend, there was already a different person beside her.
Zhao Li discovered that the fourth daughter couldn't stand other people being nice to her. Whenever her boyfriends had further intentions, she would be afraid and run away.
She said she was afraid that once she got married and had children, she would lose her fighting spirit and be trapped in the kitchen her whole life.
It wasn't until the beginning of this year that he suddenly said that he wanted a baby that would be as well-behaved and smart as Bingyan. However, when Zhao Li felt that the fourth daughter was about to settle down, the fourth daughter broke up again.
Zhao Li didn't know why she broke up. She just felt that it was not good for herself and her husband if they had given their daughters a sufficient sense of security when they were young.
Be brave and fight against your mother-in-law, father-in-law, and sister-in-law's family. Your daughters won't develop this temperament, right?
Zhao Li smiled bitterly. She touched her granddaughter's hair and said, "Of course, grandma loves you very much. Grandma also made us Bingyan a set of national costumes. When we catch crabs, can Bingyan wear them for grandma to watch?"
Bingyan's eyes lit up, and she immediately forgot about the unpleasantness just now. She kept praising her grandma for being so good. She was the best grandma in the world. She wanted to be the best grandma in the world. She wanted to be the best grandma in the world.
The voice full of childishness made Zhao Li forget the melancholy just now. After arriving at the river, he put his granddaughter down, rolled up his trouser legs, embroidered by hand, and took the little Bingyan to touch crabs in the cracks of the rocks.
Bingyan also saw big lobsters, and she exclaimed: "Grandma, grandma, don't let them separate from their parents, let them go into our bag together."
Zhao Li originally only picked the big ones, but when he heard his granddaughter’s words, he grabbed the small ones and put them into the small plastic bucket. Two big dogs, big and small, one on the left and one on the right, guarded the little master like guardians. The children not far away saw the big dog next to Bingyan. Although they were curious about this strange girl, they still did not dare to get close.
When the grandfather and grandson returned home, Su Dahai and Grandpa Su returned home. Grandpa Su saw several granddaughters and didn't know what to say, so he moved his wife into the room.
Turn on the TV, bring water, and help her wipe her hands.
Looking at his wife's tearful eyes, Grandpa Su regretted it. If he had known this day, he and his wife would have treated their children equally.
During the time when my wife was ill and hospitalized, the second son and his wife took care of her, and it was their fourth granddaughter who they thought was stupid and ineffective who communicated with the doctor.
The eldest brother and his wife only came during the operation, and so did the two daughters, who just took a look.
The eldest daughter was better off and gave them 10,000 yuan, but she also said that she would lose any more.
He also said that when he and his wife withheld their bride price, did not give them dowry, and made their two sons eat rice, they should have thought of today when they drank the shabu-shabu water.
At first, Grandpa Su complained about the children, but then he gradually understood that this was all retribution. Who would have known that the second child who stayed by their side in the end would be the second child that he and his wife always paid the least attention to?
At that time, he and his wife gave birth to two daughters, and they were about to run out of money. Finally, when the youngest daughter was seven years old, the eldest son was born. They guarded the son they finally got as if they were eyeballs.
The two daughters were able to help in the fields when they were five or six years old. They were able to cut grass to feed the pigs and cook on stools. Even the youngest son went to the fields with them carrying a sickle when he was six or seven years old.
But the eldest son, until he was eight years old, was also carried by his two sisters to the mountains to find wild fruits to eat.
With the eldest son, the younger son is just the icing on the cake. They have always thought that they have to rely on the eldest son to support them in old age, so they don't pay that much attention to the younger son.
Moreover, the eldest son is smart, can talk, and does well in school, while the younger son, like most children in the village, is dumb and only knows how to work.
In this way, he and his wife only focused on their eldest son who could make a difference.
But today, he realized that it didn't matter if he had a future. If he was not filial, he and his wife would still not be able to enjoy happiness, not to mention that the eldest son had no future at all.
His house was built with money saved by himself and his wife.
He and his wife shamelessly borrowed money from their daughters to pay for the marriage of his grandchildren. Because of these things, his two daughters still refuse to forgive them.
Grandma Su held her husband's hand and listened to her struggling to say the word "Tangtang". He nodded and said, "I understand what you mean. You also know that we have saved some money over the years and paid our medical insurance on time. Your surgery fee really didn’t cost much, and it didn’t burden several children.
Boss, I will definitely get my money back. "
"Sun... Sun" Grandma Su said, drooling again. The eldest son really made her heartbroken, but her grandson had a conscience. He heard from the second son that all three grandsons had paid for it.
Even her third grandson, who works long-distance transportation, came back to see her.
